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desi-derata

Aldenham

Escort in Aldenham, Hertfordshire

5'3" Brown Black Long D Trimmed

♡ Back from retirement ♡ British Indian touring escort & professional submissive ♡

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About Me & Services



<i> Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself;</i>
<i> You are of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.</i>
- Max Ehrmann, Desiderata

Hello, I&#39;m Apsara. You may have known me as Maya here a few years ago. I&#39;m an experienced full-service GFE and submissive escort. I&#39;m a willing and experimental partner who aspires to be kind and warm-hearted (even under these unusual circumstances!) - &#39;elite&#39; and &#39;high class&#39; aren&#39;t really part of my vocabulary; I offer more of a relaxed and unpretentious paid-shag-with-a-pal than a glossy fantasy.

Outside of escorting I love good films, food, and drink. You can talk non-and-lower-league football (see if you can guess my team from my tours!), lifting/macros, and breweries with me, or Wong Kar-wai’s back catalogue and the breakdown of British civil liberties. My educational background is in the social sciences.

I’m more of a girl-next-door than full glam, my approach to make-up and my personal style is more about accentuating what I already have rather than completely changing it; approachable and unenhanced: big brown eyes, naturally plump lips and a playful smile. My figure is lush and feminine, illustrated with (tasteful, I hope!) religious and cultural tattoos. I have dark shiny hair, thick thighs, and a grabbable butt. I love Honey Birdette and Agent Provocateur lingerie, and you can expect me in pretty florals or a cute summer dress for outcalls.

<h3 class="bbcode">GFE</h3>
I’m incredibly tactile, GFE is very much my forte. I’m passionate and giving, I want to see how you respond to me, and what makes you tick.

<b>Things I like</b>
• Being fingered
• Cum in mouth/swallow
• Cum on body
• Deep throat
• Edging
• Eye contact
• Facials (last booking/outcall only)
• FFM threesomes (or more!)
• Having my neck/upper back kissed
• Kissing
• Mutual masturbation
• Oral on me
• Oral on you (with or without condoms)
• Penetrative sex (protected, always)
• Rimming on you (if you shower in-booking :))
• Tenderness/stroking
• Titwanks

I refuse to fake orgasms; mutual masturbation, oral sex, a consistent and gentle finger on the clit, or me using my toy on myself while I go down on you should get me off :)

<h3 class="bbcode">Kink </h3>
My sexuality has been evolving over the last few years, I’ve started to grow frustrated with how serious and austere elements of BDSM culture are. I adore the adrenaline rush of spanking and impact play but dislike the rigidity of submissive and dominant roles outside of roleplays. I want to be playful without having to fit into a brat mould. I want to laugh, kiss, and play with your hair while you hurt me... and appreciate that these are all lovely and non-mutually exclusive things.

My kink bookings tend to feel more like an extension of a GFE booking, rather than its own discrete thing. This doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy roleplaying, if you have something in mind let’s talk about it - there are some taboos I don’t engage in, but there’s no harm in asking :)

<b>Things I like</b>
• Being called names
• Light bondage (with bondage tape)
• Impact play on me (whips, crops, paddles, whatever you have to hand…)
• Roleplay (I travel light, so outfit requests need to be made in advance)
• Spanking on me
• Taking orders
• Violet wands (I don’t have one of my own; I’d be delighted to use yours!)
• Watersports on me (below the neck only)
• Watersports on you

Booking information

<h3 class="bbcode">How to book</h3>
Please make sure you&#39;ve read my <u>rates</u>, <u>services</u>, <u>FAQ</u> and <u>schedule</u> tabs before getting in touch.

Please only book by text or WhatsApp. Lead by telling me when you&#39;d like to book and how long for; I&#39;m chatty and friendly in person but prefer a more streamlined approach in comms. I don&#39;t use the availability function on here, so get in touch before sending a booking request. For outcalls, let me know which screening method you&#39;d like to use within the first message. I no longer pick up phone calls and rarely answer messages on AdultWork itself.

<h3 class="bbcode">Incalls and tours</h3>
Incalls are usually in upmarket City Centre hotels. I tend to get booked up pretty quickly on the day, so booking in advance is recommended. You&#39;ll be asked to confirm at a specific time either the night before or the day of the session to keep your time and get the address - I don&#39;t send postcodes out before this!

<h3 class="bbcode">Outcalls</h3>
I now only offer outcalls during tours (within five miles of my incall location) or during my London stays.

<b>I offer a variety of screening methods for outcalls, these include:</b>
• Being an established client
• Having 5+ positive AdultWork feedback over the last couple of years
• Proof of stay for hotel visits (both a forwarded email reservation and a room number and surname upon check-in)
• Proof of address for home visits (usually the name and address section of a paper bill sent via email)

I have plenty of positive feedback going back a decade and have no interest in your personal information beyond the scope of my safety. I will not pass this on to anyone else, and all correspondence with sensitive details will be deleted immediately.

<h3 class="bbcode">Social dates and overnights</h3>
I offer social dates at a 50% rate. You can mix and match this with the normal rate depending on how long you want us to be hanging out, and how much you want to be spent intimately. We can chat over dinner, grab cocktails, hit the pub for a match… or we could even cook together at yours!

Overnights are 12 hour blocks (19.00-07.00, 20.00-08.00, etc) that should involve a bit of time for dinner and sleep - I&#39;ll trust your judgment for how this plays out on the night :) extended lengths can be accommodated on request (&#163;100 per additional hour.)

FAQ



<b>Are there any services you don&#39;t do?</b>
I don’t do giving/receiving anal penetration, hardsports, being spat on, face slapping, extended breathplay, bareback, party bookings, or car meets.

<b>Are your rates negotiable?</b>
No, sorry, mutual respect is fundamental here. Haggling will result in an immediate block. I&#39;m not going to give you the pretentious nonsense about &quot;paying for quality&quot;, but I set my rates according to what I&#39;m happy charging.

<b>Do you have &quot;hidden&quot; extras?</b>
I only offer services that I personally enjoy at a fixed rate and have no interest in seeing clients who want me to compromise my comfort or safety by offering extra to deviate from those - sorry! I love my job and - yes - the financial side plays a part in my motivation for doing it, but this isn’t a dispassionate, calculating pursuit of cash. I want to enjoy myself in your company, and I want you to enjoy me enjoying myself.

<b>Are your services time restricted?</b>
15-minute bookings are one-pop quickies where I generally don&#39;t provide rimming as you wouldn&#39;t be able to shower adequately within that time. For bookings of half an hour or longer, all listed services are available/unlimited.

<b>Do you offer/give domination? </b>
Not explicitly; I’m a very gentle person! I’m happy to take guidance on sensations that you enjoy (including pain) but I don’t have the personality/inclination towards actually exerting control over you.

<b>Do you accept bank transfers?</b>
I’m afraid I don’t. I’m cash only for the balance of the booking. This also means I don&#39;t take deposits.

<b>Do you offer dinner/social dates and overnights?</b>
Yes! See my booking information tab :)

<b>Are you genuinely bisexual?</b>
Yes! I’d love to see you with your partner, another escort, or even several other escorts!

<b>Is there any reason you might not see me?</b>
I’m happy to see adults of any race, gender, size, or disability status. The only thing that will disqualify you is being disrespectful, entitled, or unwilling to read this profile. I don&#39;t put on an act or sell a fantasy; I&#39;m a real, genuine person with no interest in faking enjoyment with someone who isn&#39;t polite and courteous.

<b>Why haven&#39;t you responded to me?</b>
I receive a lot of calls/texts and responding to every blunt one-word message, &quot;hey/hi&quot;, attempt at small talk with no stated intention of booking, or query about something already covered in my profile is sending me a bit loopy. I&#39;m not expecting full essays, but good prior communication facilitates a good booking :) think about it like booking any other kind of less sexy appointment.

<b>Do you sell photos or videos?</b>
Only what&#39;s available to buy with AdultWork credits on this profile

<b>Can I bring you wine/chocolates/etc?</b>
I tend to avoid high-sugar/carb foods but I&#39;ll happily share a drink with you :) I like orange wine/vinho verde, mezcal, tequila and slimline tonics, and top-shelf Scotch/Japanese whisky. My favourite gifts are always old football shirts or match programmes!

<b>Can I trust you to be discreet?</b>
I try to be especially considerate of this. I don&#39;t return missed calls, and texts are replied to within a mindful timeframe or during business hours. I don&#39;t wear lipstick or perfume during bookings, and you&#39;ll be provided with unscented shower gel if needed. If we meet in a social setting, I will wear something that covers my tattoos if requested - the innocent face comes in clutch in these scenarios!

<b>Are you actually Indian?</b>
Yes, I&#39;m British-born of North Indian heritage. I&#39;m not fluent in my mother tongue but can pick up scatterings of Hindi and Gujarati. I don&#39;t tend to wear Indian dress during bookings, but I&#39;d be happy for you to bring a sari with you if that&#39;s your preference and allow an extra half hour at my social rate for me to get into it.

Schedule

<h3 class="bbcode">Day-by-day</h3>
<b>22nd November - 1st December</b> unavailable
<b>2nd December</b> Nottingham City Centre incalls 16.00-22.00
<b>3rd-4th December</b> Nottingham City Centre incalls 10.00-22.00
<b>5th-9th December</b> unavailable
<b>10th December</b> Sheffield City Centre incalls 16.00-22.00
<b>11-12th December</b> Sheffield City Centre incalls 10.00-22.00
<b>13-16th December</b> unavailable
<b>17th December</b> Birmingham City Centre incalls 16.00-22.00
<b>18-19th December</b> Birmingham City Centre incalls 10.00-22.00
<b>20th-21st December</b> unavailable
<b>22nd December</b> Waterloo incalls 16.00-00.00
<b>23rd December</b> Waterloo incalls 12.00-00.00
<b>24th December</b> Waterloo incalls 10.00-22.00
<b>25-29th December</b> unavailable
<b>30th December</b> Bristol City Centre incalls 10.00-22.00
<b>31st December-1st January</b> unavailable
<b>2nd January</b> Watford incalls 16.00-22.00
<b>3rd January</b> Watford incalls 10.00-22.00
<b>4-6th January</b> unavailable
<b>7th January</b> Preston City Centre incalls 16.00-22.00
<b>8-9th January</b> Preston City Centre incalls 10.00-22.00
<b>10-12th January</b> unavailable
<b>13th January</b> Edinburgh City Centre incalls 16.00-00.00
<b>14-15th January</b> Edinburgh City Centre incalls 12.00-00.00

<h3 class="bbcode">Tours</h3>
<b>Nottingham</b>
<b>2nd December</b> Lace Market incalls 16.00-22.00
<b>3rd-4th December</b> Lace Market incalls 10.00-22.00

<b>Sheffield</b>
<b>10th December</b> Highfield incalls 16.00-22.00
<b>11-12th December</b> Highfield incalls 10.00-22.00

<b>Birmingham</b>
<b>17th December</b> Broad St incalls 16.00-22.00
<b>18-19th December</b> Broad St incalls 10.00-22.00

<b>Waterloo</b>
<b>22nd December</b> incalls 16.00-00.00
<b>23rd December</b> incalls 12.00-00.00
<b>24th December</b> incalls 10.00-22.00

<b>Bristol</b>
<b>30th December</b> Cabot Circus incalls 10.00-22.00

<b>Watford</b>
<b>2nd January</b> Berrygrove Interchange incalls 16.00-22.00
<b>3rd January</b> Berrygrove Interchange incalls 10.00-22.00

<b>Preston</b>
<b>7th January</b> City Centre incalls 16.00-22.00
<b>8-9th January</b> City Centre incalls 10.00-22.00

<b>Edinburgh</b>
<b>13th January</b> Waverley incalls 16.00-00.00
<b>14-15th January</b> Waverley incalls 12.00-00.00