Ms-Helen-Ryder
AbbotsfordEscort in Abbotsford, West Sussex
5'7" 12½st Blue Blonde Medium D Shaved Completely
**Hedonistic Pleasures* Domme, Tie & Tease, sensual massage, Experienced Mistress, Playful, Strict when required! very exciting and you'll be back for more! See Tabs for full details
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ABOUT
PLEASE READ MY HOW TO BOOK & EACH TAB
<b>APPOINTMENTS AVAILABLE </b>
<h3 class="bbcode">SPECIAL RATE FOR FBSM ONLY! (full body sensual massage) ONE HOUR £120 Me in lingerie/sexy dress & barefoot, with a happy ending via my hands or wand/venus2000. ME TOUCHING YOU! PLEASE READ TABS FOR ALL OTHER PRICING, My tick list covers phone topics and not all available in real time</h3>
BDSM & CP RATES: ONE Hour from £170 for basic play, 90 mins £230 2hrs £300
30 mins short sharp shock or quickie pegging by FMACHINE £140.
<b>****FULLY VERIFIED ADULT WORK PROVIDER WITH OVER 15 yrs IN THIS WONDERFUL INDUSTRY AND LIFESTYLE****</b>
***PLEASE SEND A BOOKING FORM AFTER WE HAVE DISCUSSED TIME/DATE THANKS. TAKING PLAYTIMES WITH MY REGS AND VERY MUCH WELCOME NEW GENUINE PLAYERS****
Hello and a big welcome I'm Miss Helen Ryder, I'm a multi faceted Lady who offers hedonistic pleasures and games. I excel in the lighter side of kink tie/tease, erotic massage and harder aspects of domination if desired. It's absolutely essential to read each tab for FULL information ;)
Visit me in my own gorgeous sexy playroom with bondage furniture, some very exciting <img src="images/smileys/yes.gif" alt="" width="19" height="19" align="texttop"/>
<b>REAL TIME IN PERSON MEETS: I usually ask for a non refundable deposit, especially if you have zero/low or flaky feedback. Those with zero feedback should be gaining feedback & asking any questions via the phone system</b>
<b>I require 24/48 hours notice with a deposit sent promptly, great playtimes start with physical & mental planning!</b>
I love to dress in sexy high end lingerie, sexy dress's, Leather & latex or strict disciplinarian type wear for spankees. Role Play various outfits especially kinky Nurse.
Solo Erotic massage or Domination sessions with Myself & DD with another lovely Mistress or Master (see links at the bottom of My profile)
Lots of NEW FILTHY PICS & Sexy clips solo and with my partner, I love to torment & tease!
My sessions are unique and bespoke I am very well equipped and have a play room kitted out for BDSM activities. ALL genders and sexualities are welcome
Please send a message to include dates/times, any health conditions or allergies and brief outline of your desires
<h3 class="bbcode">My Availability</h3>
I'm normally available MONDAY to SATURDAY from 11am to 8pm (in person) around a little later for direct chat, I schedule in time off to recharge My batteries around the play times booked in. Email with your dates to ask. I DO NOT WORK ON SUNDAY!
Same day (may be possible for clients I have seen before) THREE hours minimum notice with deposit paid within 30 mins of chatting with me to arrange. ANY NEW CLIENTS 24/48HRS NOTICE, THANKS.
I'm available for phone chats as and when able too, look for the green phone icon to show I am online for chats and just call.
<h3 class="bbcode">Location and Booking</h3>
I'm located in Burgess Hill, West Sussex, local location given once I have a confirmed booking form & deposit.
<h3 class="bbcode">Want to cum Play</h3>
Sensual or Strict just ask ;)
BDSM/Pegging in the PLAYROOM: I have so many cocks, toys, machinery, gadgets and dungeon furniture all in My own private play space, I never rent out to anyone else!
<b>***The Wand, Slubb or VENUS 2000 Milking Machine as part of a session IF desired (if not booking me as an escort)***</b>
<b>*Sensual* teasing* playful......</b> to the more exotic and STRICT darker heavier side of domination, your limits respected. <img src="images/smileys/wink.gif" alt="" width="19" height="19" align="texttop"/>
Come enjoy a unique experience with a lovely lady that differs for each client in order to accommodate our own personal desires and boundaries! I'm not a one trick pony churning out the same session for all!
*No high heels due to ACL reconstruction/meniscus (I am mobile & working)
In Brief:
<b>CLIPS</b>
<b>Tie and Tease, MILD BDSM & cater to more experienced See BDSM TAB</b>
<b>DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE I'm an accomplished DISCIPLINARIAN, leaving perfectly placed stripes on you</b>
<b>WELL EQUIPPED FETISH PLAYROOM to include EStim, Violet Wand, Pegging/FMachine and so much more</b>
<b>DOMINATION, many aspects so read My profile, yes to fisting you!</b>
<b>MILD-MEDICAL FETISH and Role Play</b>
<b>BONDAGE</b>
<b>STRESS RELIEF</b>
<b>FETISH & SENSUAL MASSAGE Different price structure applies, see tab</b>
<b>HOT MILF SEX PHONE CHAT</b>
<b>ROLE PLAY incl TABOO</b>
<b>TV DRESSING and FEMINISATION bring your own clothing if desired and SISSY MAKE-OVERS</b>
<b>Ms Helen Ryder XXX</b>
<h3 class="bbcode">GIFTS</h3>
Gifts are appreciated and please ask me for details of the sort of lovely treats I would appreciate
Here are a few ideas if you wish to bring something along as a surprise:
Perfume: Ask me which one I'm low on
Gift Vouchers for Allsaints clothing, UK12 in Allsaints if you wish to buy something
Money in a little gift card or envelope (I can put it towards something lovely) Thank you
Verve Clique champagne Rose or Brut OR TAITTINGER. No Moet or Lanson
<b>APPOINTMENTS AVAILABLE </b>
<h3 class="bbcode">SPECIAL RATE FOR FBSM ONLY! (full body sensual massage) ONE HOUR £120 Me in lingerie/sexy dress & barefoot, with a happy ending via my hands or wand/venus2000. ME TOUCHING YOU! PLEASE READ TABS FOR ALL OTHER PRICING, My tick list covers phone topics and not all available in real time</h3>
BDSM & CP RATES: ONE Hour from £170 for basic play, 90 mins £230 2hrs £300
30 mins short sharp shock or quickie pegging by FMACHINE £140.
<b>****FULLY VERIFIED ADULT WORK PROVIDER WITH OVER 15 yrs IN THIS WONDERFUL INDUSTRY AND LIFESTYLE****</b>
***PLEASE SEND A BOOKING FORM AFTER WE HAVE DISCUSSED TIME/DATE THANKS. TAKING PLAYTIMES WITH MY REGS AND VERY MUCH WELCOME NEW GENUINE PLAYERS****
Hello and a big welcome I'm Miss Helen Ryder, I'm a multi faceted Lady who offers hedonistic pleasures and games. I excel in the lighter side of kink tie/tease, erotic massage and harder aspects of domination if desired. It's absolutely essential to read each tab for FULL information ;)
Visit me in my own gorgeous sexy playroom with bondage furniture, some very exciting <img src="images/smileys/yes.gif" alt="" width="19" height="19" align="texttop"/>
<b>REAL TIME IN PERSON MEETS: I usually ask for a non refundable deposit, especially if you have zero/low or flaky feedback. Those with zero feedback should be gaining feedback & asking any questions via the phone system</b>
<b>I require 24/48 hours notice with a deposit sent promptly, great playtimes start with physical & mental planning!</b>
I love to dress in sexy high end lingerie, sexy dress's, Leather & latex or strict disciplinarian type wear for spankees. Role Play various outfits especially kinky Nurse.
Solo Erotic massage or Domination sessions with Myself & DD with another lovely Mistress or Master (see links at the bottom of My profile)
Lots of NEW FILTHY PICS & Sexy clips solo and with my partner, I love to torment & tease!
My sessions are unique and bespoke I am very well equipped and have a play room kitted out for BDSM activities. ALL genders and sexualities are welcome
Please send a message to include dates/times, any health conditions or allergies and brief outline of your desires
<h3 class="bbcode">My Availability</h3>
I'm normally available MONDAY to SATURDAY from 11am to 8pm (in person) around a little later for direct chat, I schedule in time off to recharge My batteries around the play times booked in. Email with your dates to ask. I DO NOT WORK ON SUNDAY!
Same day (may be possible for clients I have seen before) THREE hours minimum notice with deposit paid within 30 mins of chatting with me to arrange. ANY NEW CLIENTS 24/48HRS NOTICE, THANKS.
I'm available for phone chats as and when able too, look for the green phone icon to show I am online for chats and just call.
<h3 class="bbcode">Location and Booking</h3>
I'm located in Burgess Hill, West Sussex, local location given once I have a confirmed booking form & deposit.
<h3 class="bbcode">Want to cum Play</h3>
Sensual or Strict just ask ;)
BDSM/Pegging in the PLAYROOM: I have so many cocks, toys, machinery, gadgets and dungeon furniture all in My own private play space, I never rent out to anyone else!
<b>***The Wand, Slubb or VENUS 2000 Milking Machine as part of a session IF desired (if not booking me as an escort)***</b>
<b>*Sensual* teasing* playful......</b> to the more exotic and STRICT darker heavier side of domination, your limits respected. <img src="images/smileys/wink.gif" alt="" width="19" height="19" align="texttop"/>
Come enjoy a unique experience with a lovely lady that differs for each client in order to accommodate our own personal desires and boundaries! I'm not a one trick pony churning out the same session for all!
*No high heels due to ACL reconstruction/meniscus (I am mobile & working)
In Brief:
<b>CLIPS</b>
<b>Tie and Tease, MILD BDSM & cater to more experienced See BDSM TAB</b>
<b>DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE I'm an accomplished DISCIPLINARIAN, leaving perfectly placed stripes on you</b>
<b>WELL EQUIPPED FETISH PLAYROOM to include EStim, Violet Wand, Pegging/FMachine and so much more</b>
<b>DOMINATION, many aspects so read My profile, yes to fisting you!</b>
<b>MILD-MEDICAL FETISH and Role Play</b>
<b>BONDAGE</b>
<b>STRESS RELIEF</b>
<b>FETISH & SENSUAL MASSAGE Different price structure applies, see tab</b>
<b>HOT MILF SEX PHONE CHAT</b>
<b>ROLE PLAY incl TABOO</b>
<b>TV DRESSING and FEMINISATION bring your own clothing if desired and SISSY MAKE-OVERS</b>
<b>Ms Helen Ryder XXX</b>
<h3 class="bbcode">GIFTS</h3>
Gifts are appreciated and please ask me for details of the sort of lovely treats I would appreciate
Here are a few ideas if you wish to bring something along as a surprise:
Perfume: Ask me which one I'm low on
Gift Vouchers for Allsaints clothing, UK12 in Allsaints if you wish to buy something
Money in a little gift card or envelope (I can put it towards something lovely) Thank you
Verve Clique champagne Rose or Brut OR TAITTINGER. No Moet or Lanson
Any touching
Please note that I do not offer sex, no kissing, no BJ's/Oral or penetration. MY DIVERSE TICKS LISTED ARE SIMPLY TO COVER PHONE CHAT TOPICS & MY ONLINE CONTENT FILMED WITH MY PARTNER
HOW TO BOOK
<b>24/48HRS NOTICE, ONLY SEND A BOOKING FORM AFTER YOU'VE SPOKEN WITH ME, OR THAT I HAVE REQUESTED ONE, THANK YOU</b>
Please send a message through AW or direct email via My own website FIRST
Introduce yourself, the style of play you seek sensual massage or BDSM, along with a selection of dates/times you know you can come out to play & really commit to having a great time with me!
Include any meds/medical conditions, allergies or phobias that I need to be aware of
It's ok if you are completely new to the wonderful pleasures of BDSM, if you are experienced then let me know
We can then arrange to have a chat, equally if I am logged into chat then just use the direct chat system for any questions.
When we've agreed on the date/time & length of play I will require a non-returnable 50% bank transfer deposit or other discreet payment process, which I can explain if you share a joint bank account, to secure the real time in person play time. Provided you give 24hrs notice I will move this deposit to a new play time to be used within a 2-month period.
FET OR SENSUAL MASSAGE
<b>Please read my profile & FAQ's before you call me or complete a booking form as rates vary due to style of booking, thank you</b> <img src="images/smileys/smile.gif" alt="" width="19" height="19" align="texttop"/>
<h3 class="bbcode"><b>***Experience the Venus2000, Slubb or the wand at the END of your massage for a very happy ending, ***</b></h3>
I have been qualified since 1998
<h3 class="bbcode">Massage Pricing & Details</h3>
One hour of sensual massage with relief is £120, this is my focus on you, perfectly ok to rest a hand on my bottom over panties as you become aroused, but no other caressing. I will be in lingerie or sexy skimpy dress. Please come freshly showered. Otherwise a quick shower before is available but I do not offer double showering, any excess massage balm will be removed prior to you dressing.
90 mins £185 & double showering £205
Alternate massage to include light kink one hour £170
Light respectful mutual touching, only OVER My lingerie, NOT intimate. Any boundary pushers I will terminate your booking immediately and ask you to leave.
<b>THE ELITE EXPERIENCE £180: Start with a nice hot shower and body scrub to waken your senses then into My playroom for a sensual hands on teasing massage to include sensation play using My wonderful array of adult toys, encompassing sensual tactile touches with light flogging, feathers, specialist cat claws & other delights, such as Light anal play with *small toys such as anal beads for this scenario and you will be on a comfy bondage bed, It's a feast for your senses, not simply cock focused, it's about engaging the big brain & hypothalamus (the growth receptor part of our brain) in order to experience more liberated pleasures of the flesh! It's all about your mind. body & spirit, not focused just on Mr Willy, rest assured you will have a very happy ending!</b>
MY PLAY IS FOCUSED ON A FULL BODY EXPERIENCE.
*For the bum addicts I do have much larger toys, just let Me know
BDSM-DOMME
<blockquote> DOMINATION AND FETISH PLAY FROM £170</blockquote>
<h3 class="bbcode">PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU READ THIS PAGE IN FULL, THANK YOU</h3>
<b>PLEASE NOTE I DO NOT OFFER ORAL/NAKED FACE SITTING/RIMMING. I NEVER OFFER DIRTY BOTTOM SERVICES or STINKY FEET EITHER</b>
WATERSPORTS IS AN EXTRA £150 ON A SESSION
Provide a short not too specific list of likes, ONLY Use the direct chat system if you wish to discuss your fantasy at length.
I carry out a deep clean between every session with hospital grade cleaning sanitation products.
intimate examinations on you.
Spanking/Fucking bench, comfy bench for either activity! in my fetish play space.
Bottom worship (over clothes/panties, you kneeling)
Comfy massage couch
*** NEW State of the art suspension bench, with cage underneath, fully removable stocks, Floating suspension inner board for pallet wrapping, MANY tie off points***
I love a good roleplay if that's your kink, just let me know in advance, from being a deviant Doc or Nurse, a wicked Mary Poppins type or anything else, run it by me!
Overnight BDSM midweek stay (Mon-Thurs) at a boutique dungeon/apartment in Brighton (min 48hrs notice to book)
4pm to 10am check out £2500 I will require 7 hrs sleep! There is a comfy bed for Mistress & sofa bed for slave
⢠<b>Sensual alternative massage</b> a light intro to BDSM
⢠<b>Domestic Discipline OTK, bench Over sofa etc</b>
⢠<b>Strap-on Queen!!</b> Yes I really am an EXPERT I have taken many a virgin in my time and have lots of different sized cocks to suit all levels of play, lots of teasing with gloved lubed up fingers, all toys covered in condoms and sterilised for your hygiene and safety. I mainly shop from babes n horny & JT Toys so all my equipment is very good quality.
LEGAL NOTE: ALL play is with your FULL consent given, safe words in place & they MUST be used if you want an activity or session to completely stop.  I will then stop the session, check if you wish to continue in ANY aspect.  ANY play that took place before you used a safe word was legal with your full consent, not coerced in any way!
⢠<b>Anal play</b> over my knee for prostrate examination or up on the couch or fucked on the bench I have all manner of cocks/beads/plugs and my expert fingers to probe you with. I also have the 4series pro F Machine
⢠<b>Bastinado</b> Caning & whipping on the soles of your feet
⢠<b>CBT</b> Ball kicking & slapping etc CBT play (nettles, pin wheels, electrics, tiger balm etc)
⢠<b>Cage or Confinement ONLY</b> (being left alone) £95 per hour, min TWO HOUR BOOKING, ABSOLUTLY no BODILY FLUIDS OR ANY PLAY (only to those who are 100% fit & healthy)
⢠<b>Corporal punishment</b> MY Favourite, from a light caning right through to Judicial Caning, what level do you like to play?!
⢠<b>Enema</b> NOTE: This is NOT ENEMA PLAY & I PREFER MEN TO DOUCHE & PREPARE BEFORE YOU COME receive a good flush out with an enema<b>ONLY AVAILABLE</b> in bookings of <b>1.5hours or more</b> and an extra £30 to cover the disposable items used. I use sterile one use enema packs on you or sterilised bulb. Enemas are given in the bathroom only. I do not watch, you will clean up thoroughly!
⢠<b>Ginger figging</b> Raw Ginger root inserted into your anus before CP to warm things up nicely when you clench!
⢠<b>Medical roleplay and various procedures</b> Best to ask Me in a phone chat via AW system or email over what you have in mind as I play on the lighter side of medical so nothing extreme!
⢠<b>Nylon encasement</b> Head to toe in sheer or opaque hosiery, if you are very tall then you may need to purchase your own much larger sizes in hosiery to bring to session. If you are able to & enjoy 20 den hosiery it's a £5.00 surcharge to cover the disposable packet of 5 or simply bring your own.
⢠<b>Pallet Wrapping</b>Confinement onto a couch, every part of you encased in wrap with just your nipples/cock/balls to play with.
⢠<b>Role play</b> Police Woman,, Strict Bitch Boss, Bossy Bitch Girlfriend who cuckolds you, Nurse, Matron or Doctor, other ideas are welcome ;)
⢠<b>Shaving</b> I do love nice smooth balls, hairless bum holes so let Me take care of that
⢠<b>Strap-on</b> with various sized Mistress cocks from newbies first time to the more experienced.
⢠<b>TV's Sissy's</b> I can supply basic stockings & suspender belt and make up if desired. Please bring your own clothing along in a discreet bag.
⢠<b>Venus 2000 milking machine, elite machine costing over £1K</b>
⢠<b>Wax Play</b> Using specialist bondage candles with a lower melting point over your nipples/cock/balls/anywhere else!
⢠[b]Extended Sessions POA depending on activities
⢠<b>Overnight caging or locked in the bondage room</b>Two hours play then a meal/down time and caged/locked from bedtime around 11:30pm to 7am/8am the next day £650, only available to existing clients I've seen before. Meal will be either a takeaway or out to dinner with you treating Mistress. A morning shower Coffee/Tea/Toast before you depart.
⢠<b>MY MISTRESS ATTIRE</b> It's best to leave this to me as I will select something that I feel is appropriate to the style of booking. Polite requests might be considered but if your request is down to the nitty gritty of colour lipstick and sounds too controlling then I will NOT consider it! If we have agreed on a role-play, then I will of course be dressed for the role-play ;) I love getting into character. I wear sexy lingerie, fetish clothing or corsets in a booking. I do love dressing up as a Nurse in either my NHS wear, latex or PVC Nurse uniform for medical RP's :)
Do I switch? NO! Only spanking etc in My movies with My established partner
<i>Please see my FAQ's for anything that isn't covered within my profile, if there is something that I haven't covered then send a polite concise email</i>
WEBCAM & PHONE
<b>FANTASY Phone chat</b> I can be who ever you want me to be in ANY role! Your sub slut, depraved insatiable whore for prime cock, BBC, your Mistress etc surprise me ;)
<b>Webcam: I'm a mature kinky Mistress, there will be elements of teasing but remember it's about you are pleasing Me and shoving toys up yourself, NOT Me performing for you! I DO NOT GET NAKED ON CAM</b>
<b>BOOKED PHONE CHATS COST MORE as you have 10 FULL mins access to My vid clips when you book a chat to view for FREE</b>
Cum be My filthy slut on cam, bring that hard cock and have JOI or lots of other fun!
I love to laugh and be entertained by you!
I only broadcast sound in private, it's text speech in group, there will not be standing/give us a twirl requests in group. Anyone demanding anything of Me and not showing respect WILL be booted out of group.
<blockquote><i>If I am showing as green then book a chat whilst I'm available, pop an outline of your topic/fetish interests in the booking form and this MUST be a min of TEN mins, less time will be rejected"</blockquote></i>
NO WITHHELD NUMBERS ACCEPTED, DISPLAY YOUR NUMBER ON BOOKED CHATS.
I do enjoy a kinky filthy sexual chat, to include all diverse topics of fetish and sex, if you're up for a sexy challenge and role reversal on the phone, why don't you do all the filthy talking and get Me horny whilst I lie back with My wand and listen to me cum ;)
<b>NO SILENT CALLS as people can't seem to make it clear what the topics are that they wish to hear and I do not allow ANY recordings of conversations</b>
<h3 class="bbcode">Special Requests</h3>
Pop the details in the booking form or tell me when you call (5 secs is all it takes I catch on fast!)
<h3 class="bbcode">Graphic email exchange</h3>
I do not like protracted emailing as from experience it leads nowhere. You can always book a phone session OR USE DIRECT CHAT and talk with me or send an Adult Work credits voucher over to cover high volume emails FIRST.
<i>⢠PLEASE SAY WHO YOU ARE AS DIRECT CHAT DOESN'T NOTIFY WHO IS CALLING, THANKS!</i>
<h3 class="bbcode">Please be on time with booked chats, the onus is on you to be available & on time and NOT run over, as I do not give refunds unless there is some fault my end</h3>
Chat topic ideas:
Advice
Ass play
Ball Busting
Bondage, rope, chains, leather, pallet wrap, vacbed etc
CBT
CEI cum eating instructions
Chastity
Cuckolding
Degradation
Draining
Edging
Fantasy Characters and Roleplay
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Feet hosiery, stockings, oily bare, shoes, heels and boots
Findom
Fisting
Gags
Giantess
Humiliation
Ignoring you
JOI Jerk off instruction
Key Holding
Laughing at you
Life Coaching, diet, exercise, sexual experience
Nipple play
Pain
Pegging
Praise kink
Sexual Experiences I've enjoyed over the years
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Sissification
Small Penis Humiliation
Spanking and all impact play
Sploshing
Squirting
Tease and Denial
Tickling
Tributes and sending Me tips
Watersports £150 EXTRA ON any BOOKING DURATION

